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Aali Imran 3: 92
Never will you attain the good [reward] until you spend [in the way of Allah ] from that which you love. And whatever you spend – indeed, Allah is Knowing of it.
“…not the second hand clothes, ….but the stuff that you really want for yourself….get the same kind of thing that you would have loved for yourself to give for sadaqah…that is real birr.”